NO LUCK WITH AN URGENT PROBLEM
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Further, initial pressure on the sacred gate often creates a sensation called "urgency" in the medical world, the feeling of needing to pee. We believe this occurs because an engorged urethral sponge presses on the neck of the bladder. Even when empty, this feels identical to the pressure caused by a full bladder.

For reassurance, it's a good idea for a woman to empty her bladder before this kind of play. And while you're preparing, grab a couple of thick towels to lay on for that extra sense of security, just in case you ejaculate. More about that soon.

For many women's bodies, it's easier for a partner to locate their sacred gate. If sex to you is limited to the old in-an-out, here is a wonderful opportunity to drop your outmoded beliefs and start experimenting with what works uniquely for you. Like defining sex as anything that makes your body feel good.

For a partner to find your sacred gate with their fingers requires that you guide them to the right place with the right strokes. Which is why, even if your lover knows where and how to look for a your sacred gate, the perennial challenges of sexual communication can get in the way.

If you approach this kind of play as conscious Tantric Sex however, you'll grow through these kinds of problems. Don't yet know how to do this? Never fear, just read on.

THE WET TRUTH ABOUT FEMALE EJACULATION
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Scientists estimate that from 10% to 40% of women are conscious of ejaculating when their G-spot swells with the right kind of arousal. This means they can tell when they emit sexual fluids distinct from yoni lubrication. Some dribble, some gush, some downright squirt. Mostly this happens during orgasm, but some women can do it at other times, too, when highly aroused..

Those sexually-liberated females who understand the gift of ejaculation relish this feeling of warm release. The same with enlightened lovers who swoon when showered with such an intimate gift. Somraj, for one, finds supreme delight in being with a female ejaculator.

Why isn't female ejaculation better accepted?

Once again, we're reminded of generations of ignorance and prejudice, partly fueled by the male-dominated sciences. Not so long ago, physicians ordered surgery for female ejaculators to cure the inability to control their bladders during sex, referred to as "urinary incontinence." We'd rather not share how many painful stories we've heard about ignorant lovers who thought their women partners were peeing on them when they climaxed.
DISPELLING THE MYTHS ABOUT THE WET SPOT
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Please help us and other enlightened sexologists spread the truth. To begin, let's take a look at what this liquid is.

First of all, female ejaculate is not urine. It's chemically different. Anyone who's been with a female ejaculator knows it has no odor and is clear, not yellow. In fact, it more closely resembles male semen, obviously without the sperm.

Amrita, the Tantric name for female ejaculate, is sweet, thin, clear, and odorless. As Gräfenberg pointed out, it gushes, squirts, or dribbles at orgasm, which makes it of little use as a lubricant.

We've proven this all too often. Jeffre's common practice is to squirt or dribble repeatedly during our lovemaking. As a result, her thin amrita washes always the "Probe," our preferred sexual lubricant, that we use during sexual union to reduce friction and increase sensation. Reapplying some Probe is now just a routine part of our lovemaking as we pause at peaks and plateaus of ecstasy.

YOU MAY BE WETTER THAN YOU KNOW
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Where does it come from? Our friend, Dr. Gary Schubach, also known as "Doctor G," proved in his doctoral research that amrita is released from the urethra. He studied several copious squirters and, by emptying their bladders first, clearly identified amrita issuing from the same place as pee.

So it's understandable why untrained lovers sometimes think it's urine, coming out of the same orifice. But Gary's analysis and others have showed it's quite different.

Some women ejaculate every time they have sex. Some only with certain lovers and certain love play. Some rarely. Others squirt only at certain times during their monthly cycle.

We believe many women already ejaculate but don't know it. Not knowing about the possibility, they aren't aware of it. They may be dribbling such a small amount of fluid that they don't notice it. Or sadly, they might have been misled by their family physician, gynecologist, or ignorant lovers.
YES, YOU CAN IF YOU WANT TO
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Research sexologists claim not every woman can ejaculate. Though there may be scientific data to support this position, we believe that any woman can learn through Tantric practice. Jeffre taught herself as have many members of our extended Tantric family.

A woman doesn't have to squirt for both her and her lover to enjoy sex immensely. We don't want to suggest for a moment that you're inadequate if you don't ejaculate or if you can't make your partner gush. It's a preference, like same-sex play or anal sex. Go for it if you want to. If you do, with our upcoming ebook, you'll have the complete program to follow.

How can a woman learn to ejaculate? Well, that's a big subject. Gushing requires relaxation, accepting oneself as a sexual being, opening the sexual energy channels inside, learning to consciously employ the four cornerstones of sexual ecstasy, and using the right kind of physical stimulation, usually applied to the sacred gate.

BE A TANTRIC EXPLORER
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Though we don't have room here for the whole story, we believe that just knowing the sexual truths we've shared with you will help. We suggest you experiment with them on your own and with your lover.

Explore Tantrically: play around without expectation, try out new things, communicate openly and honestly, stay in the moment, focus on what feels good, and be ready to shift when what you're doing doesn't feel so good anymore.

Since we're all different and change day to day and moment to moment, drop the whole idea of knowing everything and being the perfect lover. Instead, imagine you're Lewis & Clark taking years to explore the huge wilderness of American's west.

Or in this case, the sexual frontier hidden inside you and your lover.
THE SEXUALLY WHOLE STORY
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We believe that the lack of sexual wholeness so many people experience contributes to the difficulties of enjoying sacred gate play and female ejaculation.

Growing up in our sexually immature and repressed society, none of us can avoid accumulating energetic sexual blocks. Women and men who've been sexually exploited, abused, and wounded may carry even more baggage. The sacred gate can hold this negative energy, getting in the way of enjoyment, orgasm, and ejaculation.

To fully open to the joys of sacred sexuality requires clearing for all of us. It can be done. So many of our friends, lovers, and clients confirm this, as does our personal experience.

Do you want to become sexually whole? Do you hope to experience more and more sexual pleasure? Do you look forward to higher and higher peaks of sexual ecstasy? Then we welcome you on the path we've been joyously treading for some years now.

All will be covered in great Tantric depth in our upcoming ebook. Watch for its impending announcement.

GOOD NEWS, MEN HAVE ONE TOO
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While we're on the subject of G- spots, did you know that men have one too? Don't worry guys, we don't intend to leave your other major orgasmic trigger out of our upcoming ebook.

The male G-spot is the prostate. That's the firm, partly muscular, chestnut-sized gland a long-finger-width inside the rectum which produces a thick fluid which is part of semen. Guys, if you've never felt it otherwise, you're sure to recognize your prostate's involuntary rhythmic contractions that begin your ejaculatory orgasms. Which is why stimulating it from inside or outside produces great pleasure.

You mean by putting a toy, finger, or vajra (Tantric for penis) inside your anus? Yes, that's the most direct means of male G-spot play.
BREATHE & RELAX, YOU CAN HANDLE IT
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We know that freaks out some people, partly because of the hygiene factor. But if you wash and stay aware of what you put where, you can make it clean and safe. We always keep talc-free latex gloves handy just for that purpose.

The ultra-insensitive approach of too many physicians during prostate exams has created a lot of resistance to anal play. On the other hand, many people love it. There are a great many nerve endings there which produce incredible pleasure when the right kind of stimulation is welcomed and accepted.

As with so many kinds of sexual exploration, relaxing is the key here, too. We find it tremendously freeing when a man opens to anal penetration. Regardless of his experience, a man can't walk away from his first time without great empathy for what women experience during sexual penetration.

PROOF TO END THE WAR BETWEEN THE SEXES
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Enlightened sexologists recognize that both men and women can have great pleasure and orgasms from both inner and outer stimulation. They compare male and female jewels (Tantric for sex organs), seeing clio (Tantric for clitoris) as a small female vajra and the sacred gate as the female prostate.

Since men's and women's jewels evolve from the same embryonic human tissue, the comparison makes sense. Here is firm evidence that the two genders are equal, at least sexually. Maybe it will help end the perennial war between the sexes. Make love, not war, right?

Women swoon when they first experience sacred gate play and female ejaculation. With male G-spot stimulation, men can soar right along with them.

A Tantric friend recently wrote... "My husband goes into as long and expanded states as I do, we are equal opportunity in this department!"

Blended orgasm, combining clio and sacred gate excitement, is even more fantastic for women. Now there's no reason why ecstasy needs to be limited to the fairer sex. Couple male G-spot play with vajra stimulation and the sky is literally the limit for both sexes.
NOTHING COMPARES WITH TANTRIC ORGASM
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Of course, nothing compares to using subtle sexual energy to reach Tantric Orgasm. A Tantric Orgasm is an experience of prolonged peak pleasure in which your whole body vibrates with wave after wave of intense ardor. You shake all over, engulfed in surge after surge of pure liquid fire, that can go on for minutes, even hours.

We think adventuresome lovers get hooked on stronger and stronger physical stimulation in an attempt to create this kind of non-stop ecstasy externally. With simple step-by-step exercises, our coming ebook shows how to create sensational highs with the slightest arousal. That's why we call S.E.X. Subtle Energy eXchange.

Tantric lovers use any and all kinds of sexual play to begin detonating Tantric Orgasm. Imagine having your most powerful triggers creatively loved while you're in the throes of Tantric Orgasm. It's an altered state we call the O-Zone, beyond excitement, beyond orgasm, and beyond multiple orgasm. Where time stops, boundaries with your beloved disappear, you merge with the entire universe, and float there endlessly never wanting the supreme bliss to end.

The secret of Tantric Orgasm is to spread the powerful sensations from each part of your jewels throughout your body. Then the energy implodes, massaging your mind, body, and spirit instead of being released by an explosive orgasm.

MEN, YOUR DOORWAY TO ULTIMATE ECSTASY
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Men, your doorway to this kind of ecstasy is learning to separate ejaculation from orgasm. Yes, they are different experiences. And it's relatively easy to learn with some fun practice. Which is partly why we started our growing ebook series with Somraj's best-selling "Ultimate Premature Ejaculation Mastery."

When you complete his program and learn to last forever, you'll be perfectly primed and ready to expand your sexual repertoire to include ecstatic male G-spot play. And your women partners, soaring higher and higher, will naturally open to deeper ecstasy.

For more information about getting your own copy of Ultimate Premature Ejaculation Mastery, click here.

LOOKING FORWARD TO MEETING YOU ON THE WAY
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We hope this introduction to your sacred gate and ejaculation options opens your mind to more sacred sexual possibilities. After years of practicing and playing, we're continuously surprised with how much more there is for all of us to learn.

What a great inner journey, learning about ourselves, our triggers, and supreme bliss. We look forward to meeting you along the way.